There is a Difference

I have come to realize that there is a huge difference between just having sex and making love. Having sex can be rather impersonal. You don't look into each other's eyes, it can get started pretty quick, there's no kissing during "just sex" most of the time, you don't necessarily have to have feelings for the person, four-play is often excluded, and when it's over, it's over. But, making love? In its own way, it is a conversation without words. It is an expression of feelings. It's soft, sweet, slow, thoughtful, unselfish, romantic, magical.....I could go on and on. There's yearning, longing, giving, receiving, heat, desire, and passion. Believe it or not, it doesn't have to last long either. Just long enough to reach that peak. And when it's over, you feel like you've just built a wall around you two that no one can find the entrance to. I feel like the only way to truely make love is to be in love. If you're not in love, it's just sex. Not that sex isn't good. People who are in love have "just sex" most of the time. there isn't always enough time to slow things down. But, making love is GREAT!!! ...or so I believe. I honestly feel that I have yet to truely make love. I came close to it but there was no trust in the relationship. Almost doesn't count LoL. To feel the connection deep within my being. To have that experience with a man who I can trust with my heart, who is faithful to me, honest with me, knows me, longs for me, LOVES ME....I can imagine it will be an amazing experience. So, since I am in a new relationship with love all around it, I'm pretty certain that our day will come. Living in different states won't stop me. Nope! I'm going to have my magical moment. I'm going to turn that fumble into a touchdown! Here's Hoping for the Best. Luv, MeLi